Friends’ Stories

The Holocaust Connection

Spring  2018. I picked up the museum phone. The caller was doing some research about ‘Woodcote House’ – a large house that had been located near Ascot Racecourse, and demolished in the 1990s. Apparently, it had been used from the Autumn of 1945 until 1947 to house refugees from Europe. Were we aware of it?

Two young men stand beside a road sign indicating directions to Ascot and Bagshot.

I’d never heard about it – and I live a little more than a mile from Ascot. I took details and promised to pass them on to the museum team and to the local studies officer. I told her that I lived nearby and would contact Facebook groups and elsewhere to see if any locals had any memories they could share. A few weeks later, I forwarded her some memories from 3 or 4 people, and some suggestions as to who else might help.

I thought no more of it until a few months later when I was browsing online and found the story quite prominently on the BBC website – ‘The ‘Belsen Boys’ Who Moved To Ascot’ (the title was not strictly correct – the boys came from camps across Europe).

A black and white photograph of five children standing on a dirt road, each with a bicycle. They are dressed in vintage clothing, with one boy wearing a straw hat, and trees and a fence are visible in the background.

The caller – Rosie Whitehouse – was a freelancer, prepping something for the BBC. I kept in touch with her for a year or so, in particular the possibility of some information being displayed in the Ascot Library.  I met her again when the Parish Council invited my wife and I to a commemoration event on Holocaust Memorial Day 2019. It was very moving, with Yiddish prayers and rituals. We held candles.

Two elderly men – Ivor Perl and Sam Freiman – were guests of honour. Both had been liberated and had lived in Woodcote House. Sadly, Sam Freiman is no longer with us, but Ivor Perl  – now 92 years old – still dedicates his time to sharing his story. A remarkable man.

Ivor Perl, now elderly with white hair and glasses smiling while seated, against a backdrop of a brick wall.
Ivor Perl

In 2020, I put together a PowerPoint presentation about Woodcote House. It’s loaded onto the audiovisual display in the Museum (the one with the virtual tour of the Guildhall on it). We have also reproduced it here:

by Gerald Hyder


Museum Encounter

Probably the most distinguished member of any group that I have guided round the Guildhall turned up just before the pandemic. He was a well-dressed gentleman in his fifties and asked me several questions in a distinctive accent……

As we were going downstairs at the end I asked him where he was from. “I am from Germany,” he said. “I am Prince Donatus, Landgrave of Hesse.” Germany’s nobility, of course, lost all power at the end of the First World War with the setting up of the Weimar Republic, but many of its members, like those of other former noble families in Europe, hold on to their honorific titles to this day. Prince Donatus is a descendant of Queen Victoria and a relative of Prince Philip, whose funeral he attended. He was also present at the funeral of Queen Elizabeth and the coronation of King Charles.

As he left the Guildhall, I said I hoped he would enjoy the rest of his visit to Britain. “No,” he said, “I live in Uxbridge.

by Richard Snailham


Visitors

Although I haven’t met anyone that you could call famous at the Museum and I certainly can’t beat Richard’s story, I have met some really interesting visitors.

Just before lockdown, I did a tour with an elderly Australian couple. When we reached the council chamber, the gentleman said, “Oh yes, I recognise some of these portraits. We have that one and those two over there and this one.” By now, I was rather bemused! His wife smiled and said,”He’s the Governor of Queensland and we’re dining at the Castle tonight with the Queen.” We had a very pleasant tour and, shaking my hand as they left, he said that they had enjoyed it immensely. About two weeks late,r a parcel arrived at the Museum addressed to me. Inside was a beautiful book about Government House, Queensland, showing photos of all the portraits and a very nice ‘thank you’ note.

Amongst others that I’ve met unexpectedly was the grandson of one of the crew of the Dornier from which we have a piece of wreckage on display within the Museum. He didn’t expect to see or hear anything about the incident and was overjoyed when we gave him a copy of our research, none of which he knew about, and I gave him directions to the crash site.

A retired American lawyer was amazed to see our exhibit concerning Roderick Maclean and his attempted assassination of Queen Victoria. He had studied the case in detail at law school many years ago!

by Len Nash


Museum Encounter

About a year ago, I spotted a couple – probably in their mid-50s – looking at the military history display. I engaged with them and pointed out that the case included a ‘Dead Man’s Penny’, which was in my view, probably the saddest item on display in the Museum. He introduced his wife and himself as being from ‘New York State, USA’. I wasn’t aware that there might be more than one but kept that to myself! His wife hardly spoke at all.

We’ve just been to the D-Day beaches. Very moving’ says he. I reply ‘Funny enough, so have I. My wife and I were there a fortnight ago……

My uncle landed on Omaha’, he continued, ‘Thankfully not in the first wave’.

How weird’, says I, ‘My uncle landed on one of the British beaches. D-Day+2. He was with a tank unit, and survived Normandy, had a tough time through to Germany’.

My uncle made it too’, says the American, ‘but had an awful time at the Battle of the Bulge’. ‘Yes, I’ve read how bad that was’, I reply, ‘Crack Panzer Divisions and 16-year-old kids’.

My uncle was there’, says the American, ‘and so was my wife’s uncle’. His wife adds in a drawl ‘Yeah, he was there……’.

Wow’, I respond, ‘What an amazing coincidence!

More than a coincidence’, says the American, ‘My uncle was fighting for the US Army; my wife’s uncle was fighting for the Germans!’

What a strange world we live in!

by Gerald Hyder


An Old Codger’s Treasured Memory

It was on the occasion of one of Her Majesty’s ‘walkabouts‘ in Windsor that I escorted my dear friend Doris Mellor down to the barricade at the end of Park Street, opposite the Post Office as was. It was a cold, chilling day, but Doris was determined to see Her Majesty pass by, and so was I.

The moment arrived when our Queen, with her companions, began to pass by towards the High Street, when suddenly she was distracted and walked directly towards us. Her Majesty came straight to our barricade and said, “Doris, what on earth are you doing here? You will catch your death of cold!.” Doris answered, “I just want to see you again Ma’am”.

The Queen then chatted briefly with Doris and then ordered her to go home to get warm. Doris replied, “Don’t be concerned Ma’am, Ian will drive me home very shortly”. Her Majesty then addressed me and said, ”Thank you Ian. Please take Doris home now before she catches her death of cold.” I said, “I will Ma’am”.

So that is my cherished memory. The Queen spoke to me, addressing me by my first name! I have to admit that I feel kind of ennobled by it. Some of my chums who were nearby on that day ‘put it about a bit‘ that I actually curtsied to Her Majesty. It was a very long time ago and so now I cannot confirm or deny it.

Last September (2021), my wife and I received a greetings card of congratulations from Her Majesty on the occasion of our diamond wedding anniversary and which we display proudly in our home.

My wife and I wish Her Majesty good health and very warm wishes at this time.

by Ian J. Burley


Memories of the Archive Store

Before we had a museum, volunteers used to meet at the Museum’s Archive Store on a Wednesday morning to help the curator look after the Royal Borough Museum Collection. The usual suspects were Leslie Grout, Hester Davenport, Pamela Marson, Brigitte Mitchell, Beryl Hedges and Malcolm & Gloria Lock, but each week there would be just four of us as space did not allow for more. There was always a lot of chatting and banter around the table, but mostly we talked about the museum we were all hoping for.

On one Wednesday morning in May 2003 in an idle moment, Hester, Pamela, Leslie and Brigitte decided to write a poem about our plight.

We are the volunteers, the volunteers are we,

A-working down in Tinkers Lane, we do it all for free.

We are the knights of Tinkers Lane, but tinkers we are not,

Tho’ when you come to see the store, you’ll think that’s what you’ve got!

The town has no museum, so everything’s in store,

But packing things and stacking things, is a tremendous chore.

A place is in the pipeline, they say, but we ourselves,

Just hear the gurgling in the pipes, around the storeroom shelves.

Once a year, we organised an open day at the Archive Store and everyone was invited. There was a hustle and bustle to get the place tidied up, artefacts were liberated from their boxes and off shelves and laid out on tables for visitors to inspect. We were allowed extra space in the Canteen, and short talks were given during the day on different displays. There was always a steady stream of visitors throughout the day, and one could often hear the words “This should really be displayed in a proper museum.”


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